It could be said that researching sex is a hobby of mine. I spend a lot of time talking to people about sex and their flaunted or hidden sexual desires, but I also do a lot of reading. I’ve read eveything from TheStory of O, Kinsey’s work, medical journals to comments and blog posts from those who aren’t medical proffesionals or published authors. I find that those who seem to be secure in their own bodies and are well aquanted with their own sexualities, often echo my thoughts or experiences …

From early childhood, social “norms” have taught us to hide our most intimate parts. Far be it we should look at someone else’s primary or secondary sexual characteristics, even in two-dimensional form. Society enforces unnatural concepts into what little intellect we have at the time, up to the point where we begin to be ashamed of our bodies even when we stand naked alone. No more of that. Enough. Step back – into your childhood. When humans are very small, babies and toddlers even, they touch themselves where and when …

Most global statistics will tell you that some 80% of men and 20% of women have masturbated at some point in their lives. A somewhat smaller percentage of both admits to masturbating regularly. Ehem. The remaining respective 20% and 40% percent are probably flat out lying. First of all, we all did it as small children somewhere between the age of 6 months and 6 years. Of course, that masturbation is different on several levels to the masturbation we discovered in puberty and both are different to the masturbation we …

Dare2Speak.com is a regional webportal, based in Serbia and entirely on the subject of sex.
Over the years, I’ve come into contact with a number of people who began turning to me with questions having to do with sex. Some answers I knew, some I didn’t. With the ones I didn’t, again, I wasn’t afraid to ask a professional or research it myself (if ya know what I mean). Eventually, this became an almost daily thing between my friends and myself. Have a question about sex, your relationship, a first date, …

If you commit any of these, your sex life will be in serious danger of burning in a lonely hell for the rest of eternity. No joke.

1. “Not now, I have a headache”
From this day forward and for all future reference, whenever you hear that you partner is experiencing a headache or any similar pain, rip your clothes off and get to work if care for them at all. Sexual activities increase levels of oxygen in the bloodstream, levels of oxytocin, endorphins (good stuff, look ‘em up), …